I’m physically disabled in social isolation where this is my only external human contact. I tried to share the abstract learning curve on the path I have taken from asking the same questions to finding more useful information. How should I engage with others so that I never have moments like this where I regret my only method of human interaction?
I’m very sorry if my dumb joke caused any regret. It was low-hanging fruit and I thought it would be funny.
Speaking only for myself, when I sense ambiguity, I ask questions to try to improve clarity. On the internet it’s especially easy (understandably) for people to assume a “hostile” or “negative” tone in any bit of writing, even if that’s not intended at all. You can also try a bit of role-playing, where you assume you asked the question and read your answer as if it was something someone else responded to you with. If you vibe with that approach, you can use it to “tune your tone”, or “writer’s voice”.
I’m no expert, either, these are simply my own anecdotes and I often fail miserably at taking my own advice, as humans are wont to do. Again, I appologize if my lazy attempt at humor caused any distress. I’m happy to have you here and to be able to talk like this. Please reach out any time!
I’ve never engaged on stack overflow, only used whatever thing I’ve skimmed.
Is there something I said that triggered or offended you in some way worth mentioning and calling specific attention to?
“Your question is wrong…” is such a common type of response there that it’s become a meme.
I’m physically disabled in social isolation where this is my only external human contact. I tried to share the abstract learning curve on the path I have taken from asking the same questions to finding more useful information. How should I engage with others so that I never have moments like this where I regret my only method of human interaction?
I’m very sorry if my dumb joke caused any regret. It was low-hanging fruit and I thought it would be funny.
Speaking only for myself, when I sense ambiguity, I ask questions to try to improve clarity. On the internet it’s especially easy (understandably) for people to assume a “hostile” or “negative” tone in any bit of writing, even if that’s not intended at all. You can also try a bit of role-playing, where you assume you asked the question and read your answer as if it was something someone else responded to you with. If you vibe with that approach, you can use it to “tune your tone”, or “writer’s voice”.
I’m no expert, either, these are simply my own anecdotes and I often fail miserably at taking my own advice, as humans are wont to do. Again, I appologize if my lazy attempt at humor caused any distress. I’m happy to have you here and to be able to talk like this. Please reach out any time!
Thanks