With a couple of governments making the switch I honestly think that things are changing to some degree. Will windows die and be forgotten by everyone overnight? Of course not. But I think there’s a real chance their piece of the pie will start to shrink noticeably. Chrome OS is dominating in schools for a few years now and Microsoft is seemingly trying hard to alienate the current windows users.
I get that it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but surely you’ll also understand those people who want to get certain questions (like kids) over with early. It’s also why a lot of people put some of those things on their dating profiles for others to see before even connecting.
For some things there is no point to proceed if the answer doesn’t match between the couple. Just means they aren’t compatible and that’s ok. Better to find out before you have a deep emotional connection in my opinion. Less heartbreak that way.
Same with politics. I can’t imagine having formed a connection with someone over other stuff and then finding out they are on the opposite side politically speaking. Nowadays politics and ethics are very deeply linked and I won’t be with someone with poor ethics. It’s just not something to compromise on.
Sure it’s private. I wouldn’t walk up to a random person and ask them if they have deep rooted trauma, a mental illness, a substance abuse problem, if they want kids, if they are emotionally available etc.
However, in a partner those things are often incredibly useful to know. Same for where they stand politically.
Sooooo… does she not know the definition of the word “abortion”? Because if she’s fuzzy on that she may want to read up on the thing she helped make illegal (except for under very specific circumstances).